And darn it I am sorry for assuming you had a plan! I still think you are smart and resourceful and will be getting it figured out!
I agree with CG about the daycare --
Think about this in regard to your son- people with Autism need help losing rigidity and developing a "flexible brain." Can't think of the researcher right now, but a famous one who developed a social skills curriculum for kids with Autism has stated this. And in Canada, do they have a program where they pick him up for a few hours a week for early intervention?
I grew up with my brother who is disabled and I was a special ed teacher for 5 years and am a generel ed teacher now with students who have A in my class so I am not in your shoes but am not totally ignorant either if that makes sense!
OK now I will be quiet!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004