It' kind of odd that your H can't sleep and needs elaborate meals to ward off his health issues but can participate in such a heavy duty sport with a coach, no?
H is slowly and irreversibly losing kidney function -- he's at about 40% now and may have non-functioning kidneys within the next 5-10 years. Yes he's into his sport but more in a teaching/coaching capacity...he's not competitive even though he wishes he was.
H turned 40 last year.
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me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.