Only you can decide how far you will allow yourself to go.
You might consider not looking at your H's FB page for 48 hours. It really is doing you no good.
You are aware that right now your H is not invested in the marriage or is willing to work on things. You have long thought *something* might be brewing on the side. Looking at pics of what it might (or might not be) really won't help you detach.
Honestly, isn't your H in his 40's? It all sounds incredibly silly and immature to me that a grown man would want all these high school'ish comments on a FB page.
It' kind of odd that your H can't sleep and needs elaborate meals to ward off his health issues but can participate in such a heavy duty sport with a coach, no?
