Is there no 'counselling' you could get through the church? Not being a church person I couldn't say what, or who to speak to.
My advice is for the two of you to sit down and speak about this, or at least try to. You don't mention anything about what she wants to do - is she still in love with OM? Does she want to work on the M? Does she want to D? Is she still in contact with OM?
What does she SAY she wants?
Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010
"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient." "Delay is the antidote for anger"
