I agree, nothing I done justifies her having an A. I was NEVER abusive or violent, I just had a bad temper when she would nag me all the time and I would say some mean things. She is FULLY aware I know about OM. Remember my posts said I told EVERYONE and I confronted her the day I found out and I yelled and screamed and called her every name imaginable but I later apologized. No counselling, I cannot afford it, but I do go to church and have ALOT of friends I talk to about it.
T-7 years, M-06/08/05 EA-Oct08 thru Jan09 PA-Jan 1st ILYBNILWY speech Jan 2nd Jan 4th-WS agreed to work on marriage Discovered A-Jan 14th exposed same day WS said IL w/OM and wants D Jan 20th