At 10 months I was still in Limbo. He would come over every night but not stay. I had every reason to think this would work out. Then he filed about a year after he moved out and didn't even tell me. I never got served, just hasd a "friend" tell me about it.

My now 17 year old son called him when he heard me crying and he came and held me all night. And that was it, I fell into a deep depression for about 4 months and I began to distance myself. I never gave up until I heard him say it was over for him under oath.

I am a year and 7 months out from the divorce and I am not obsessed with the mess like I was during the whole thing. I put in a box, locked it up and now it is on a shelf somewhere. No point looking at it right now.

He has been living with his affair partner since July and are engaged. That hurt but again, it has nothing to do with me.

I hope you can sort this all out. It sadly all takes time.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory