Wife in love with another man, I need help

[Jonpen]

Also I forgot to mention,
I want to save the marriage and she doesn't. She is still in love with him. No I have exposed to EVERYONE including the other mans wife. There was an entire month that went by where there was no contact between the 2 of them and they he started texting her. I blocked his number from her phone without them knowing. I still have a feeling they are talking somehow though I could be wrong. When I noticed them start talking again I instantly told his wife and I think it may have put a stop to it again.

I was being overly nice and following MB plan A to perfection but it got me nowhere. Now, I am going out with friends, moving on with my life and pretty much ignoring her. I am still nice and kind, but I no longer do ANYTHING for her. I used to wash her dishes and her clothes, clean up her messes etc.. now I clean mine and the kids messes, wash mine and the kids dishes and laundry and leave hers.

I am a full time student and she is the only one working. We live in her aunt's house. I want to stick to a plan that actually works and it seems the more I ignore her and move on with my life the nicer she becomes. I would still like to save our marriage but at the same time my love for her is almost gone.

We still live in the same house, I still see her everyday, she works from home now so she no longer works with the other man.