Ahh, also a good point listen well, I will ask God to open my heart and my ears, because I clearly wasn't in the past.
At least she hasn't backed out yet and I am not saying anything to hurt that.
Mountain top, which comes first, her getting depressed and then you not loving her or the opposite.
Your statements that you've tried to open your heart/feel with your heart? What does that mean? Because it is exactly what my w says. Thus the opposite POV, in my relationhip you would the WAW.
When she says that to me, I think and sometimes say to her, love is a choice, it is a proactive action. One cannot sit in a room with someone and fall in love. I can't go to Barnes and Noble and read a book and see a lady there for a few days and be in love.
Love starts with a kind word, a caress of one's hand, holding hands. Love needs encouragement to grow.
My wife says she is trying, I say how? She says by not leaving, which I guess is quite true.
I do love her dearly despite all this and am very pleased she is going to Retrouvaille this weekend.
TBL now equals "Toward Better Love" M-44 W-42; 2 kids; married 11 years 1st bomb 10-08, reconcile 12-08 2nd bomb 8-09, moving toward reconcile 3-7-10