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Re: I've hit a wall.. Now what?
talia #1951155 03/04/10 03:37 AM
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Re: I've hit a wall.. Now what?
chatterbug #1951390 03/04/10 03:43 PM
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Chatter,
I thought I've been following along and lurking fairly well.
But I missed it: Cutter becoming Chatter.
When and why?

Gardener

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With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
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Re: I've hit a wall.. Now what?
talia #1951480 03/04/10 05:37 PM
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good for you, talia! i want to try the P90x, but my floors are polished concrete. wouldn't i be miserable??

i might follow your lead and do my best to stay off amusement park rides, too! smile

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Re: I've hit a wall.. Now what?
trytryagain #1951485 03/04/10 05:42 PM
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TTA - I'm doing it on my cement floors in my basement since the carpet isn't in yet. I just put down an inexpensive workout mat that I got at walmart. They sell these interlocking squares that make a big workout mat for something around $20 for a pack of 6. Easy fix!!

Not only am I staying off the rides... I'm staying out of the damn park!!!

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Re: I've hit a wall.. Now what?
talia #1951500 03/04/10 05:54 PM
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Re: I've hit a wall.. Now what?
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Originally Posted By: Gardener
Chatter,
I thought I've been following along and lurking fairly well.
But I missed it: Cutter becoming Chatter.
When and why?


It was that or Foghorn Leghorn

New Life... new name... smile

I am Irish and I have the gift of the gab

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!
Re: I've hit a wall.. Now what?
chatterbug #1951520 03/04/10 06:06 PM
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Awww - Thanks Cbug!!! I feel so honored to be QUOTED!!! grin blush

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Re: I've hit a wall.. Now what?
talia #1951531 03/04/10 06:18 PM
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OK Everyone - Pearl has mentioned this a couple times and Its finally getting to me. My friend TryTryAgain has been getting bad DBing advice for a while and I've been posting to counter -

Everyone get on TTA's thread and provide GOOD DBing advice - this person needs to see what DB is really about!!

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...514#Post1951514

TTA - You have been doing a good job of taking the few nuggets out of that advice and then discarding the rest. I am NOT trying to be horrible on here - but this is getting ridiculous. His advice is NOT DB - its important that people on here get the support this board is MEANT to offer. Mind reading, catering to your WAS, giving in, denying your feelings, and doing what you think your spouse would want based on what you think they are thinking is NOT DB. Thank you for posting as you have been lately - I don't think I'm the end all be all for advice, but I know bad advice when I see it. I'm hoping this call will get others posting for you so you can see that there is consistency in what I'm recommending.


Lets support each other the RIGHT way!
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Re: I've hit a wall.. Now what?
talia #1951571 03/04/10 06:46 PM
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Talia there is no such thing as bad advice here. We all post advice. Its up to the individual to determine what course they wish to follow. Some of it we agree with. Some we do not.

This is a good chance for you to practice some of that DB stuff with OTM.

Validate and move on.

Both of you have your hearts in the right place.

Flowers always make people better, happier, and more helpful; they are sunshine, food and medicine for the soul.
unconditional love is awesome!
Re: I've hit a wall.. Now what?
chatterbug #1951670 03/04/10 08:02 PM
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talia, thanks for trying to make sure i get the best advice possible. you're sweet to care so much!! smile and for hijacking your own thread for me!

i may have to borrow the dvds from my cousin...i think he tried the p90x thing for about 3 days before giving up!

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