Wow, Sandi, I wish I would have thought of that separate parties thing... I don't know if I could change it now, without being an a$$ and/or hurting daughter's feelings. Any suggestions? Maybe I could explain to wife that it gives the girls false feelings or something. Maybe it IS too late for this event?

What do you think about how she visits at the house? Should I tell her she needs to take them somewhere else when she visits? It isn't her house any longer...

Yesterday, she mainly napped on the couch after moving stuff and coming back to visit the girls. (I locked her out of the computers)


M:48
W:35
S:16
D:15
D:10
Md: 12 & 1/2 years
bomb: Jan 8 ?
she moved out about then also
Moved in w/OM soon after