How do I act?

[Surviving03]

I am new here, I previously posted my story under Hopefulness, entitled "Husband Deployed Wants Divorce", I havent recieved any replies yet, but I wanted to add that my H has started completely avoiding everybody that I feel he thinks may try to persuade him against this decision. Today I got a call from an old mutual friend of ours and he said to me, hey I talked to your H and I really think you should start making plans to move on (this is a friend who previously told me he really thinks that my H feelings will change when he comes home from his deployment) and I said why??? what did he say?? and he told me the same things that my H had already said to me about why he didnt want to be with me anymore... so I asked well why do you think he wont change his mind, and he told me, well i just really know him and i can tell his mind is dead set and I REALLY dont see him changing it. He told me that my H told him that its nothing against me, he just feels he got married too soon and for the wrong reasons and married life is not what he wants for himself right now. We are two years into our M and the man I married is a family type of man who talks non stop about his dreams of having children and having a home and having a wife and the whole nine yards.... he comes home in 2 weeks from today, and I am terrified... I have not emailed him in 3 days, but he hasnt emailed me for a week, and has not called in 3 weeks. Please read my other post and read my story. I am still trying to get the swing of things and get the lingo used here, I have not read any of Michelles books, but I have watched some of the youtube videos and they are really good, but i feel like how can i use those techniques with my spouse right now if he wont even speak to me... and what should I use when he does come home?