Those sound like great goals...keep up the good work. Now that whatever happens you will survive and you will make it. Any goals or things that you do that are an attempt to get her back will not work. These must be the goals that you want. In this process you should become the man that YOU want to be not the one that you think may get her back. Keep saying that to yourself...keep saying it. You are doing good and I agree that you should not bite off more than you can choose. Be gentle on yourself. Remember Rome was not built in a day.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
