Sorry you are her, but this board will help you get through this. There are some great people here who can give you some great advice.
Have you gotten the Db/DR books. If not get those to read. You should also read the detach link and the resources. There are links on a few peoples threads and at the top of this forum.
You need to start GAL and worry about YOU not him.
There are no magic buttons or quick fixes but you can get through this.
If you have trouble finding the links let me know and I will post them for you.
