hey there! I'm excited for you to make the move to have the "discussion" if it was something you were always doing, that would be bad, but you haven't R talked in a long time, so time to make some changes! just remember to keep your expectations at zero, and you might be surprised at what you get back
it might be good to use us to role play first though.
oh, and about the new friends you have...why not open up a bit to her, it could help her feel that she is not alone, and you can show her some things that could help her sitch. There are SOOOO many people going thru this, and people have no idea.
my friend from here that I mentioned a few weeks ago, she has already talked to several women and men (she talks a lot lol) and have found at least 5 couples going thru the same things that happen before the bombs!! her chiro, 2 good friends, a daycare kids parents, it's crazy. it's everywhere. but what is so cool is that she feels this is a calling for her too now to share what she has learned so others don't have to go what she is going thru.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
