Calling all affair annihilators & boundary setters

[gForce]

Sorry to hear your story and that you find yourself here. Listen to KerryK and Kalni -- we all arrived here post-bomb around the same time. I know them well and they give good advice. In my own sitch, W didn't reconcile until I had firm plans to move away and start a new job/life. Your H will never look back if all that is there is needy/clingy.