W has said she is mentally checked out of M. Done trying to work on M.
I guess the only that really bothers me is the way she went about ending it.
In her mind she tried last year to fix M but I was unaware of her actions. Now I'm tryiing to save it and she knows, but sometimes it really is too little too late.
I don't know if she plans to file right away after the agreement is final but if she does I'm OK with it.
I am now feeling that I don't want to work on it any more.
I plan to to go to the meeting and declose everything and not be taken advantage of.
MAybe if she sees me moving on with life she may soften. MAybe Not.
I reread the chapter on LRT today and it even says rhings may not work out. Also I read a=on this board about when women leave/Separate it usually is the end.
More men tend to go back women but not women to men.
Am I wrong on this??
What else can I do???
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