I would be there...not to help...but to make sure that she doesn't take out something you want. If you're not worried about that; then I wouldn't be there.
1. Be there 2. Be there with a FRIEND.. do NOT be there ALONE with her while she moves out... unless you are a masochist... 3. Take inventory of everythign she takes... do NOT let her take ANYTHING that is in dispute... tell her to leave it here until the divorce is final and she can pick it up if it is hers... ESSENTIALS ONLY!
When my W moved; I was there because I didn't want to leave her in the house alone. However, I wasn't worried about material things; they can always be replaced.
I think I'm ready to throw in the towel on this whole thing. It's taken too much energy from me and I can't deal w/ someone's confusion. It's funny- when I re-read my sitch I noticed that from bomb to Christmas, I was not posting here-
I don't know whay that is, I know I found the site, but I think I was just lurking for a while.
Anyway- tonight I GAL by seeing a movie w/ some friends, and taking my dog on a walk on the beach.
Maynard - take a few days to search yourself and make sure that the anger you feel is not driving you to call it a day. You may feel like you can hang in there a little longer in a day or so.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
YOu aren't stuck with all teh bills, your W has to cover her debts when she leaves... she can't walk out and leave you with yoru balls in your hand... push back...
Hell I would tell her if she wants out, she can take the debts with HER!!!
Finances will get resolved, don't let those details overwhelm you
