Courts ~ Keep doing what you're doing and nothing will change. You'll still be sad and at loose ends about your M and Life. You'll still be counting condoms in his jacket pocket. You'll still feel desperate. How's that sounding to you?
Or...
You can sit that man down and say, "I have decided that this arrangement is not what I want. I know you are having an A. You will either stop your A and come home to work on our M, or I will see my lawyer and divorce you." There are only two things to consider for him - restoring his M or you will end it. Period.
Let him choose and then you will act.
There will be NO DISSOLVING INTO TEARS with FEAR and SADNESS. Stand up for yourself and your daughter and your M and your dignity and WHAT IS RIGHT.
Or stay in Limbo-hell.
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Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08