Oh.......well I don't really think you should give up so soon, but if you do I understand if you feel you've done all you can.
2x4 - don't jump to telling her "meet me in court" if you want to save it. DB isn't always about saving your marriage. Sometimes it's about saving yourself.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...