CG, I think we were posting at the same time last night. You suggest that I file and don't tell him? Just have him served with the papers?

KerryK, my heart just sank when I read your post - thinking about how long this has gone on - OMGosh I feel like such a doormat for not doing something earlier. It kind of feels like 1/2 of me hates my H for what he has done and yet the other 1/2 still wants to be hopeful.

I'll be back to comment on the rest of the posts/questions. DD and I have appointments to get our hair cut.


Me: 34
H: 34
DD: 3
M: 8 yrs
H moved out Oct. 2008, "not happy" "don't know what I want" "will always love you, but not in love with you"
PA Bomb: April 5, 2010