Ah yes choices......we all have choices.
Some choices are more difficult than others to make....sometimes we postpone them.....sometimes we avoid them.....until it becomes painfully obvious what the right choice is. Sometimes the best choices are the ones we do not make.
I decided that I had had enough and left (some may say i had no choice but to leave ..... lol).
You have decided to stick it out....you have your reasons.
I am just sorry that you continue to be disappointed with your husband's lack of action.