I am getting further and further from his life and as much as I love it, he is resisting. The calls instead of texts are more frequent and I really do like the texts
So yesterday his d15 had an out of town track meet. I knew it and obviously didn't expect him , but exh didn't call until it was actually his visit time. I ignored the call. It would have been fine to just send a text. He didn't leave a message. Then my d15, who goes to school in the area of the track meet, called and said she was there watching a friends sister and exh and his exw1 and all of her family were there. She chatted with him. Exh called my phone again but I didn't answer. No message again. Then last night he called again! I finally answered and he said "about time you answer your GD phone!" I said calmly "Please do not speak to me that way or I will not answer from now on." He went on to tell me he called 50 times...and I said no..you called twice and left no message. He said he was going to tell me his d15 had a track meet. I said well that could have been left on a message. He went on to ask how baby was etc. and ask if he could come by today and see her (nonvisit). I said Friday is your visit day...see you then. I then quickly asked how his d15 did and he told me. Congratulations and I really gotta go!
Another funny thing was my son was on his FB and became a fan of "I love my mother because she does everything for me". I am sure he was being partially sarcastic, but I added that I 'liked' it. My son came in last night and said that exh must have seen that and commented "kiss a**". I know exh was just being sarcastic with s16 and that is fine, but what was really funny was s16 said he went to exh's profile and exh had erased that comment from his own profile...probably so MGF can't see he commented on my sons stuff. My son chuckled and said exh must hate that I have a good relationship with my kids as his is such crap.
My house is being taken over by toys. Going to go through them and get rid of the really baby stuff. Pay bills ...oh and get my teeth cleaned. YUCK!
I like the popcorn and margarita version better 25!!
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!