Ring On or Ring Off????

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After (not) sleeping on it over night, I have made the following revisions:

I know that I have accused you of approaching this without emotion and I have accused you of not experiencing any pain over all of this. I know this is not true. On the handful of occasions that I have tried to talk to you, you have remained silent, but I see the pain in your eyes. I know because of the way that you have avoided me, how you are handling this,
and what all of this means, that this is not an easy thing for you.

I do not believe that divorce is the answer for us. I believe to the bottom of my soul that this is wrong.

You told me to get a lawyer, and I have, Lisa X. I know that divorce is what you want----what you need, and I have accepted that fact and have retained representation. I made the appointment, I went to her office and I laid out how I felt about
all of this. I gave her all of the details of our lives together. I told her how much I still care for you, and that this is not what I want.