Am I in the right place? Need advice and support.

[Clife]

Thank-you Onthemountaintop, I will check out amazon now.
I have read several already, After the Affair,Just Good Friends, I Love You but I'm Not In Love With You and of course DB.

All good books and one that ive loaned to a friend, to pre-empt a situation i saw looming.

Your input really helped and gave me the shove to bite the bullet and make the email. Alot of what i said wasn't new but i think said in a different way, alot clearer and underlining how i think he's behaved with strength and integrity throughout these last few months. We are 10months into our 'separation' now. and i think I may have a better idea where we are headed soon. Maybe not absolutely as there is no absolutes but with a little more confidence.

On a lighter note, we are paintballing on Sunday with a group of friends so if he wishes to let off a few rounds at me then heres his opportunity!!
I hear it can be quite painful so im off to find some padded clothes!!!

Hope alls well with you, take care Onthemountaintop (do you shorten your name at all?)