I'm playing the long game. I know that eventually my two younger children will see through XHs actions but I'm not looking forward to having to pick up the pieces.
You may not have to pick up any pieces because he's the one that will fall apart. Although, it seems, he only cares if they are malleable to his word. This will only last until they are hitting the 20's and then they will tell him to take a hike. But, of course, he will have his new little family. I feel sorry for the new baby.
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
