FM:H is very convincing...he even convinces me that I've been a misery to be married to frown .
There's a difference between owning your part and making a sincere offer to fix it and drinking the tainted water from his well.
They attack on the way out to alleviate their guilt for being unwilling to work on their end of things and try. If you're NOT a demon (and supposedly a ball and chain to have lived with), then he's a failure as a husband (emasculating notion) and as a father (moral failure). Guess what's easier to accept? That you're a demon. It's this AND the black and white depression thinking.
If you were so bad and all the things he is insinuating were so true, he would not have married you and stayed with you so long in the first place. He has had the money and the two feet to walk with since year one of your R.
