THanks FM - which link is that? I'm glad you're doing the detaching = I think it will really help you. It gets easier over time too. Everything is still so new and raw for you. Hang in there.
Had a nice rehearsal, came home and disappeared into back room. NOt in any mood to talk to the man who just filed for legal separation. I am ready for some more babysteps. Backing way off for now until I get some. It's starting to sink in, a bid sad. But it's not over yet.
