I'm glad the legal S is behind you now and you don't have to worry about it. It sounds like there's some progress going on in MC.
And it sounds like you feel ready to do some detaching. I'm trying to work through the exercises from the detach link that everyone posts. It's pretty painful, but I think you might be up for it...
Take care...
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.