not sure what to do here, I've been reading these forums and have really made some mistakes. I work w/ my wife, actually 2 cubicles down from her. She dropped the bomb on me on the way to work and then will be in her cube joking with guys and being all friendly. I told my mgr I may need to move to a diff part of the floor.
She wanted D to the point she wanted me to schedule w/ a mediator. I told her I'm not sure what I want to do yet. I went to the bank and separated our funds and this got her VERY upset...wrote her a letter with instructions on how to split her part off, it was very matter of fact, she calls it the "dear John" letter??? She has already spoken to the stepkids about moving. I've been doing 180 and GAL which seems to bother her, I'm not sure if she's the type to do this stuff with. There is very little talk between us now, I mainly answer questions.
She has given mea list of things to do to fix up the house for sale. She seems to think I'm going to eagerly work my butt off to get the house (that we'll lose a ton of money on) ready for sale.
