Find a thread, the one above is VERY good... and 4luv you can do this too, it would be good for you.
Find a thread of a MAN who is loving twoards his wife who is having an affair and being very forceful...
I want you both to talk to him and teach him to get forceful with his wife, give him all the advice he needs to hear.
YOU TWO will SEE yoruselves in his post and you will LEARN the changes YOU TWO need to make in yoru own affairs from him... its a great exercise...
It will help a LOT if you try this out, I can guarantee it will be an eye opener for you...
I notice women more often seem to be posting to women's threads where the Husband is cheating, and men seem to more often post to men's threads where the female is cheating.
I honeslty think there's more to be LEARNED from reading posts from men about their wives cheating, and the reverse...
I am going to reccomend you two do that... the thread above is a very good example.
The reason for my suggesting the opposite sex as practice?
You will see your husband in the female's thread, you will sympathize on the man who is cheating and go easier on him...
With a female, the liklihood you will identify is much slimmer... So you will be more objective about it, and encourage the poster to be a LOT mroe assertive... you will be teaching youselves as you advise... I strongly reccomend it.
