Originally Posted By: idontunderstand
I know what you mean. If my wife and I didn't have kids, would I put myself through all of this? I don't know. I love her and think marriage is a lifetime commitment, but if it was just she and I.......
The kids are innocent and have done nothing to deserve this, and no matter how hard we try, if it comes down to a divorce, I will feel like I let them down and failed them.

How can the WAW seem like they have no concern for the kids? I don't know if I'll ever understand that one. I know they don't like us anymore, but come on.


You just all but said you may not like her enough to stay with her if there were not kids. Gee, you think she picked up on that at some point?
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T25 M22
S21 & 19
D13
Separated and filed 8/08
Moved home 11/08



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