Wow, I truly hope my W can bring this attitude to the weekend. If you don't love her what is your motivation here, if any, besides the children? Not that that motivation isn't enough.

Explain your phrase I'm trying to be honest to myself from your perspective, as my wife says that constantly.

I will post how things go, I guess like "fight club" rules I can't say exactly what happens or is happening and that is fine.

I enjoy this post also as it truly is the exact opposite point of view coming in, very interesting. Have to love the WWW at times.

TBL now equals "Toward Better Love"
M-44 W-42; 2 kids; married 11 years
1st bomb 10-08, reconcile 12-08
2nd bomb 8-09, moving toward reconcile 3-7-10