Calling all affair annihilators & boundary setters

[pearlharbr]

I sent him a couple of texts and left a note in the car telling him that continued cheating is a deal breaker for me. I don’t think he takes me seriously or maybe he just doesn’t care.

Of course he doesn't believe you because your actions show him that you're still going to hang around and chase after him. Even that is pursuing behavior: you only need to say it once. If you're serious about it being a dealbreaker then follow through.

Make copies of all your evidence and put it somewhere he doesn't have access. If you haven't already retained a lawyer, do it tomorrow. Now you need to protect yourself financially for both your and D3's sake.