They cheat but they always expect you to trust them .. never fails... after the affair was over in my home my wife's tune change though.

SHe wanted to go away for a weekend... I wasn't comfortable with it and I told her... She showed dissappointment and said that she needed the trip to relax...

I told her I didn't trust her... she agreed FINALLY that she understood why...

She never went. That was a HUGE step for her... she took ownershp of the damage done by her affair and paid the price for it herself... huge leap there..

If your wife can get her to do that, all the power to ya.