Thank you CW. But then does that mean I should not hold out hope at all?
How do I connect with my H in a way that he doesn't feel "trapped"? Stay dark? Even with the time that's left?
This has been the most difficult situations and I feel he is treating it like we just had a "first date and decided, oh well, I just need to move on..." It has been over 10 years!!
I know a lot has happened and we both made mistakes, but there is still value in the R. I reallt do not want a D, but I feel "pushed" by him to do things his way.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
