Thank you Lolawar and Newmama. Not replying to his texts regarding my GALing is easy beacuse I know he has (or had) a jealous streak so I know it gets to him whether or not he shows it.
The NC does seem to be getting easier, but it has only been 4 days since I made contact with him. So I know I still have a long way to go.
He told me last week that he would transfer his support on Thursday (which is tomorrrow). I plan on sending a text tomorrow night asking him if he transfered it if I don't here anything from him before that. I hate to break NC for that but need that money to pay house payment on Friday. I figure if I keep it strictly business and short and sweet then I will be fine. Kind of an in and out type contact.
Do you think this is okay or should I wait until Fri or Sat?
me 32 H 34 together since 92 married 01 bomb 3/08 s 3/08
