found some MC's online and she took the list. Said that she'll call some of them tomorrow and let me know. We'll see
She asked why I was so distant. She made that comment last night. I explained to her that one week we've gone from putting it back together to her wanting a D and now back to wanting to put it back together. How does she expect me to react?
Then I told her that I would need a NC letter to be delivered by me. She said that OM and I will have to talk about the kid. I told her that an agreement can be worked out where he can call or text thru me for items concerning the kid. If there has to be direct contact; it's only with me present. This would have to be in place BEFORE we start any MC.
She seemed a little perplexed; so I informed her that any lingering feelings for this guy start back over anytime that she has contact with him. That's why it has to be in place. "What, you don't trust me?" of course not W, why would I? I would love to; but not right now.
So it was empowering to lay that out. She didn't lash back; but it'll be interesting to see what her next move is or isn't.
