It's clear my W is sick: Bi-polar, Alcoholic, depressed. I took a vow of marriage, for better or for worse. Divorce is a problem for me.
I think I understand where you are...DONE with it all, but not really believing in or wanting Divorce. But think about this time you'll have once she moves out. That doesn't mean it's over yet. It gives some separation that will make life a little easier and more bearable for all, you, the W as well as the kids. You'll both start to feel what life after D will be like.
It could open some eyes, it could make some differences. There's still time to bust this D, if that's what you really want to do. Maybe being on her own will be enough of a change to get her to see her own problems and get some help. No longer leaning on you and taking account of herself.
