Ending conversations when needed and not talking to SIL: good plans DG! Every time you stick to those plans you are taking care of yourself. When dealing with H's family, I am very careful because I consider it "enemy camp" even if they are being warm to me because I know what I say will get back to H, and not necessarily accurately.
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
