Looking for Advice

[gutwrenching]

Sandi - you around. I'm travelling. Last night a short talk W initiated about potential Hawaii job back on. She wants me to burn bridges and tell them no way...I told her I'm still thinking about it, I have to consider my future since she is having doubts about our M. That I don't yet know what I want to do.

Then today she texts me: "Look I'm angry about the assignment thing. Stop texting me and we will talk about this when you get back"

I don't like her pulling the angry routine and trying to control me. Trying to think of best way to reply.

Initially I was thinking something along the lines of:

Sorry you are mad. We had a short/honest talk and we are still talking. I am still listening/thinking.

If you don't want me to share my experiences ok, but please be civil.

thoughts