My DB coach said my W needs to become friendly again before things could improve anyway so hopefully this is the start.
Very true! The WAW is very deffensive at first, so when she is able to feel comfortable around her H, she will begin to relax and let down her guard.....and that will help with less arguing! Being on friendly terms is always a good starting place.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
