We have been seeing each other off and on this whole time. We'll break up (more that we already are) and not see each other for up to 6 weeks and then for some reason we'll end up needing to hang out and he'll be back to being with me...then I'll start "pressuring" him for more (ie a commitment and me moving back in), he'll freak out and so the cycle goes.
I would guess that pretty much this entire time (and before) he has thought that maybe the grass was greener; he'd go dabble in the grass; come back, but even when he came back he's still be peeking over the fence, so to speak. He's tried to keep me at arms length. This time I think he's going to really try to be 'all in'.
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
