t is very difficult to comprehend why they hate us so. When we are the victims in this mess.

Trusting, I do not think it is good to think of ourselves as victims. I own up to some codependent behavior that was more controlling than I would like to admit. It does take two to tango. With that said, I did not deserve to be cheated on and dumped in such a crappy manner, but I figure that OW can have the

And in some ways, I am happier without X. These days are getting more frequent.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D