I think if you choose NC, you must remember that it is good for YOU. Also, I think it is a good time to get to know yourself again. I have enjoyed this and appreciate myself again.
As far as X--I do think that it is healthy to tell yourself that the X does not matter. If you get sucked into their moods and their behavior, it just drags you down.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D