I think if you choose NC, you must remember that it is good for YOU. Also, I think it is a good time to get to know yourself again. I have enjoyed this and appreciate myself again.

As far as X--I do think that it is healthy to tell yourself that the X does not matter. If you get sucked into their moods and their behavior, it just drags you down.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D