"I messaged her that it was nice how we were able to interact with one another in a positive and relaxing manner n that I was able to help her out with stuff."
Start by stopping doing things like this.
Geez did you read ANY of the 19 pages of posts people write to you?
We've all been telling you what not to do, but you do it again and again and come back here asking "why?" "why?"
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.