Not that this is the biggest deal in the world..but if you knew my husband.. you would again raise an eyebrow...by the book he is (pre affair)!! I get several letters in the mail today- he got a speeding ticket- over 20 mph. I am guilty of speeding occassionally myself..but I am going to vent here just because I don't want to say these things to him...especially because it is on the way to/from OW apartment?? 1) I am so glad that your life without me has provided you with an opportunity to appear in court as a defendant 2) I am glad that your life with the OW has provided you with the opportunity to meet local law enforcement 3) I am glad that you have continued your reckless behavior outside of our marriage LOSER!!!