I think that was an excellent email. If you have to have a drink to send it, so be it. I've been on ADs since Sept. We all need a little help now & then!
I am not a religious person but I find comfort in the thought of turning something like this over to God's, or a higher power's hands. You've done your very best, just as in your little prayer above. Which I love. That is what I'm aiming for too, with the S agrmt. Based on the best for you, done in fairness.
I understand how you feel watching your R die as you say in this mess of legal & emotional turmoil. Remember Aver, this is not of your doing. You didn't have a choice in deciding to end the R, but you chose how to deal with your situation. You are doing your very best, acting with integrity, doing what your heart is telling you (@ the house). Keep strong. Sending hugs your way.
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