Flo, Gno has some good advic on how to celebrate your day. I'll save it for my birthday later this year!!
CG, you summed up the detaching dilemma perfectly. I know in some cases OP are "true loves" but I believe in many they are simply a distraction or bandaid that the WAS "uses" as a means of avoiding working on problems.When the WAS is distracted full time they simply do not have to deal with detaching to the extent that the LBS does. They are caught up in frenzy and excitement of new "love". At least, that is what I think.
