I think it is interesting that H is mad at his parents for enabling his nephew when they do the same thing for him. Otherwise you did a good job not bringing that up and just letting H know you understand how he is feeling. At least he is standing up for S.

I am happy about the surgery. Definitely progress! Do you think H will stay with you after he gets the surgery? He will need someone to take care of him for a little bit.

Have a good night and Happy Anniversary in advance. smile

Me29 S3
H left 4/1/09
I file 8/2/10
Divorce final 5/17/11
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