I hear your words of wisdom above about slowness and time - but I can honestly say that it looks hopeless - W is SO INTO her Facebook, Blackberry, texts, emails, etc that only conversation she has for me is about kids, or our money sitch, or bills, or house selling related. No personal stuff at all.
I know what you are going through. I've been out of the house 10 months and we had one talk -- back in September -- that had any personal talk other than I want a D, I don't love you any more, I never loved you any more.
I can't sense any personal feelings from her anymore. It's all strictly business with occasional flashes of anger because she's very suspicious of me.
It seems so hopeless -- as if I'm dead to her.
I feel your pain.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
